My single-mom body is a wreck and I haven’t been on a date in 15 years! I am also far less critical of other people, including men. 3) You’ve faced the reason-defying triumphs that are required of single motherhood.
This doesn't mean that you should spend your date talking about your child's honor roll status - but isn't it best to start any relationship with honesty? Set Your Standards High There's no doubt that dating when you're a single parent raises the stakes-after all, this is not just about you anymore. But eventually your kid is old enough what "dating" means. And when you are ready to introduce your date, you might be surprised to hear that your kid isn't ready to meet him/her yet. I'm not sure if any parent ever achieves balance, whether you're single or married. Childcare can be a huge challenge for single parents.
"In my coaching practice, I suggest that single moms do the inside work to get really clear about their wants, needs, values and beliefs and get in touch with their intuition," says Kerri Zane, single-mom lifestyle expert and author of It Takes All 5: A Single Mom's Guide to Finding the Real One.
Once you've decided that you're ready to date, it might feel impossible to find the time.
I can check that off my life to-do list and look for a man for love or companionship or sex – or all three. This kindness bleeds into your other relationships. Being a single mom means that you have been through at least three life-altering experiences.
Forgive the friends and in-laws who you felt deserted you.